Thanks you for the response!! She is seeing a counselor, I honestly do look up to her because she knows that something is wrong with her emotions and she is really trying to figure out ways to help herself.

She was on antianxiety medication before, I believe that she tried two different medications but both of them made her feel like a zombie; she didn't feel any emotions at all, she was numb to the world when she was taking them. Neither of us want that. I could try talking to her about taking some anti depressent medication and see how that works for her. I'm not sure if she will go for it though, she is kinda against western medicine and would rather go a homeopathic aproach.

I will have to try and go with her to her counselor, maybe talking to her about these issues with a professional in the room will help, I have tried to bring up my worries to her but it has always ended up in a bad argument. I think what is making things harder now is that we are in a semi distance relationship now. (we live 3 hours away from eachother) Her depression is getting MUCH worse with the distance, I am going home early because of it but I worry that she may be a little to dependent on me. Do you think that she may need medication?

Thank you again for your response! I can't really talk to anyone else about this so it really make a difference