Hi yeah there are lots of factors that lead us to this point really we are in the process of buying a house witch has meant both of us working silly hours my wife was actually working three part time jobs but all told probably full time hours,since things blow up she as quit one! I also have been working a lot plus we have been juggling the kids,I think If I hadn't been working so much I would have noticed more warning signs that she is not very well.

If I was to rewind one month back she was planning the new kitchen and bathroom for the house she had brought all the materials for bathroom booked a tradesman in to do the work the lot! to be honest looking back she was obsessed by it witch was probably a sign things weren't right she is quite obsessive about things anyway but never really seems to follow through with anything she's got in mind she has great ideas but can't seem to see them through now she's not even remotely interested in the house or anything she was interested in then complete shutdown her aspect has completely changed.One month ago she really wanted another baby as well I wasn't so keen I wasn't saying no just that we should wait till things are more chilled with the house and so on! that is also out the window which brings me onto another point she had a smear test and there was some regularities with her periods the smear itself was fine!The nurse mentioned that the regularities with her periods could be a miscarriage! But to be honest she always has a regular periods so I didn't read too much into it thinking it was unlikelyand if was it was a week late so wasnt much support! witch she has brought up since and isn't happy about.