J27,

it it is so nice to hear others tell me that what I am experiencing is not me going crazy! Describing this to friends and his brother makes me sound like I'm delusional.

i thought when he first dropped the divorce bomb that if it went through it would be amicable, but the more change I see in him, I know it won't be amicable at all. I've kept angry text and emails he has sent to me and my sister, in case I need to prove his mental instability in court.

i hope it doesn't come down to that and we are able to get him help. I will keep fighting for our marriage until he serves me