Salsheime

Sorry to say but it will be anything but amicable and I was with my DH for 34 years, he has become an uncaring monster, no contact with our kids even though they have both been hospitalised.

Keep everything well documented, I was going to go down the same route of getting his mental capacity challenged but he will not comply, had he done so we would not be in this mess and he would have left his employment with a decent payoff.

For the purposes of me trying to sort our finances via Court we are having to take the approach that my DH is "better" which we know he clearly is not better otherwise my kids and I will end up penniless!