HI salsheime

Your words ring so true to me. Despite everything my DH was saying, I agreed that if he was well and still wanted that, it would be ok. However just like you, I could see he was not alright, so it was imperative to get that fixed - he owed that to his children and to himself.

At the same time, you also need to think about yourself and the children. It is really hard - but almost like a backup plan, or safety net. I guess you are in the hopeful stage that something will help trigger him to get help, but while it won't, you are treading water and you need to protect yourself too.

It is such a terrible place to be and my heart aches for you.

Big hugs.

Last Edited By: balancingblue Aug 21 15 12:08 AM. Edited 1 times.