Just Spoke to my wife on the phone she seems reasonable adamant that the fact she hasn't been taking her tablets and seems really numb emotionless is nothing to do with her depression/tablets it's because she isn't happy with me and she hasn't been for a whale!she is kind of convincing me!I'm lost don't know what to do?do I except it and deal with the kids,our  living arrangements or what?really confused with the abrupt natural of the last couple of weeks it's making me think that I might be the one that has the problem and to just let her go. 

really worries me how she will cope on her own witch she has picked up on she always says 'you as in me don't think I could cope on my ownwith the kids"and to be honest it is a big worry for me she gets a lot of surport from me and my mum.