Hi Beck83

as everyone has mentioned - this is depression talk. It can be so beleivable yet as you say only a month ago she wanted another child with you. The speed with which her feelings have changed is not real - this is depression.

Is there anyway you can create on a peice of paper a timeline showing how a month ago this is what she wanted, all the pressures, all the things on there that have been triggers in this. Then point out that you love her, but that while she does not want to see anyone, that for the sake of making decisions that will impact her children she shoudl just go and have a talk with you and the doctors ( together)? Create it as a counselling question? - anything that may have her say ok?