The annoying thing as well is that this girl actually contacted me when my exDBF had his MDE asking for help because she didn't know how to help him. At the time I didn't know that they'd kissed, so I gave her advice, told her just to be there for him and tell him it was okay etc, and thanked her for being so supportive. She even told me how she felt like it was her fault that he was going through this and I told her never to blame herself.

I just feel so stupid.

She's even messaged me saying how great it is that he has such good support from me, and she knows he'll get better because of me. She also told me that she finds it so difficult to deal with him when he's feeling low.

And then a couple of months down the line and she decides to confess her feelings to him. Even though she knows what we're going through. Even though she knows how much he's still suffering.

I know it sounds spiteful, but if they ever do decide to take things further, I really doubt she has what it takes to be there for him. It makes you realise just how strong and loving all of us guys are. 

It's funny as well because this girl is so similar to me. We have the same interests and we're both quite shy and awkward. She also has OCD and I assume some sort of social anxiety from what I've heard. Choosing people that are similar to their ex or have their own issues seems to be a common thing with D.

I've not really got any news. I've not seen much of my exDBF but he's been texting me every day as if things are normal. After all that talk of wanting to be with me we've slipped right back into friendship and I feel lost again.

I'm hoping that once he starts seeing the psychologist things will change.