Hy husband left me 3 weeks ago. He has been staying at his Mom's. He says he doesn't know how he feels about me - yet he isn't ready to make the decision to divorce, nor make the decision to work on our marriage. I'm trying to give him space to work on himself, and I am going to counseling to work on myself. I am on an emotional roller coaster. He's my best friend, and I am his. We talk regularly, text regularly, yet he hasn't made any moves one way or the other. Is this normal? For the Depressive to stand still isntead of making any moves? He's mid-life crisis depressive to a T. He's been on Lexapro and Wellbutrin for 2 years. He is thinking of going off his meds, and honestly I would like to see a baseline of where he is without them - see if the emotional blunting goes away. Do I continue to try to spend time with him and my daughter as a family when he asks? Do I keep texting and talking to him when he initiates? Should I stop initiating contact with him? All of these things are very painful to me. I'm not even asking for him to come home right now, because I don't want him there until he can say I Love You back to me. All I want is a commitment that he will be willing to try to work on our relationship. Am I expecting too much?




