Hi going though a really tuff time at the minute.my wife stopped taking her meds (sertraline) I think for around two-three weeks,she has been taking them again for just under two weeks the problem came to a head around three weeks ago our children 7&5 wake me up at 2.30am on a Monday morning asking where there mummy was?one of them usual gets in bed with us!i rang her and she was up the street with her friend(new friend single with one child can't say a like her vibe very much!)when she got back she ushered the kids to bed and went to sleep I was downstairs on the sofa,angry I sent her a snotty message saying she "may as well move down there perminatly because I can't be doing with this"since then she has been completely closed off no emotion not herself at all!after a few days I twigged she hasn't been taking her meds confronted her about it she said she hadn't and started taking them again,but still complete shut off a closed book witch is so unlike her she is usually so talkative there is nothing there at all no emotion spending a lot of time up the road with her new friend who oviously has no idea of her condition/state of mind in the last week she has told me she told me she loves me but is not in love with me!she wants to be on her own and she is taking the girls with her witch I really don't want her to do for veroius reasons 1 I came from a broken family and it was horrible I don't want the same for my girls. 2 the girls will be devastated a specially the oldest she is very sensitive. 3 she really isn't in a emotionaly fit state to take care of them properly.
She has always had depression/mental health issues but we have managed it reasonable well together,stemming from her bad upbringing abusive parents she doesn't speak to she doesn't really speak to any of her blood relatives me the girls and my immediate family are her main source of surport but she is not talking to any of us. What should I do???
She has always had depression/mental health issues but we have managed it reasonable well together,stemming from her bad upbringing abusive parents she doesn't speak to she doesn't really speak to any of her blood relatives me the girls and my immediate family are her main source of surport but she is not talking to any of us. What should I do???




