dear anne,
My Bf goes on and off on wether he wants to get helped or not. At times he will say nothing is wrong with me, I'm fine this is jsut the way I am. But sometimes he will say things like what is wrong with me? I need help. I want to be happy. At these times I will ask him if he wants to talk to someone. As soon as I mention this he goes back to no, I'm fine, and whatnot. When he is in admittence of his problem and wants help what can I say to him that will let him know I will support him and help him in getting help, and also encourage him to want to go talk to someone. I know that he will not do it on his own. Once before he went to talk to his doctor. His doctor told him to make another appointment but he never did because he was "feeling better". I just don't know what to say. I know he knows he needs help but he can't come to terms with it!
Thanks for any help!
PS. I read your book and it really helped me a lot!
My Bf goes on and off on wether he wants to get helped or not. At times he will say nothing is wrong with me, I'm fine this is jsut the way I am. But sometimes he will say things like what is wrong with me? I need help. I want to be happy. At these times I will ask him if he wants to talk to someone. As soon as I mention this he goes back to no, I'm fine, and whatnot. When he is in admittence of his problem and wants help what can I say to him that will let him know I will support him and help him in getting help, and also encourage him to want to go talk to someone. I know that he will not do it on his own. Once before he went to talk to his doctor. His doctor told him to make another appointment but he never did because he was "feeling better". I just don't know what to say. I know he knows he needs help but he can't come to terms with it!
Thanks for any help!
PS. I read your book and it really helped me a lot!




