OMG....I just called and talked to T @ the store...and he was in a livid mood...
and says " I don't know how to tell you this....and PLEASE understand that I am pissed off about this"
and so I say... "ok"
and he continues to say "this morning I was looking for something on my sisters desk.....and there was an itinerary for
KK (old x-girlfriend from where he use to live) to come in for the Thanksgiving weekend...I called my sister immediately
and she explained that KK has been calling her and confessing her love for me and how she can't live
without me, so my sister and KK arranged for her to come in and surprise me for the weekend and rekindle the
relationship....THERE IS NOTHING TO REKINDLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND I am sooooooooooo ANGRY at my sister right
now for interfering in my personal life"
so I say......NOTHING
LONG SILENCE on the phone
and he says "F*CK I broke this off with her almost a year ago....she called me and called me and stalked me via
the phone (she would call like 40 times in a hour.....he showed me his phone a couple of times) when I went
to XXXX this summer I sat her down and talked to her and told her again.....I care about her as a friend, but
our relationship is over....I can not commit to her, because I am not in love with her......and now there is you, who
I know I am hurting right now as well and it's not even my fault you are hurting"
I still say NOTHING...because I can not flipping believe this
T says...."Lynne, I am so sorry.......I was looking forward to Thanksgiving....and now I am not. Fortunately I have
to work the whole weekend (Friday and Saturday ALL day till close), so atleast I won't have to spend much time with her.
I still say NOTHING
LONG PAUSE again.....
T says "Lynne, can I call you or text you this weekend????
I do not answer (still can't believe what I am hearing)
then he says "Lynne, I promise I will call you whenever I get a free moment....please say something???"
I say....."T....your family controls your life...it is obvious from other interactions your sister does NOT like me
and that she obviously is trying to get you and KK back together. I can tell you that I am not happy about this"
he interrupts and says "do you think I am????????? I am furious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
I continue....."If you want to.....call me, but don't feel obligated...and I can't say weather I will answer your call or not.....I have
quite a bit going on this weekend"
Then he asked me "can you stop by the store after work tonight...so I can see you????
I told him "right now...my answer is NO......I have to get back to work"
I hung up
ok a) do I drop by after work to see him???
b) do I have a right to be mad...we don't have a committed relationship either...we casually date....with BONUS's.
c) am I over reacting??? or do I have more feelings for him than I want to admit to myself, him or anyone?????????????




