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Aug 7 11 1:14 PM
how do you show love and support and still disengage....you all seem so much stronger than I feel........
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Aug 8 11 7:01 AM
My wife has been unofficially diagnosed as having Axis II PD, closest to BPD.
She's changed her behavior significantly short-term, though still regresses. She was emotionally dysregulated on Friday when she read my lawyer's proposal to postpone if she agreed to move out temporarily & have rent paid from community funds & get estimated spousal support for a month. But she kept it away from the children. We're talking about an agreement in which she commits to DBT, agrees to keep the environment at home calm and sane for the children, etc. In return I postpone the court action for 30 days and we see what happens.
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Whether it's my wife, or her by proxy (she picked a high conflict lawyer) it's clear that rational agreements aren't possible.
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Aug 11 11 7:23 AM
And now my wife is very happy.
Well, after 4 hours and tons of money spent on lawyers we basically got a new hearing in 4 weeks. Almost exactly what I offered and her lawyer refused at 11am.
Slash and burn. Make him twist.
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She was worse this morning, saying she can't sleep without me, crying and sobbing in front of the kids, saying she can't take this any more... she just wouldn't or couldn't stop. Remember this is all about me and the kids spending 2 nights away from her, 1 mile away. So I ended up calling 911. She ran away. More later.
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