I can relate to the "analysis paralysis." I have read so many books, and yet no action, not any closer to a solution. Most of my books are on how to fix my marriage, but I think the depression changes the rules. I don't know whether his depression has caused our marital issues, or if he is depressed because of them? We go in circles, and I am so tired of not getting anywhere. He wants to go to couples' counselling, but I am dreading it. I have become the passive one now....