My husband has been seriously unhappy/angry for the last six months. He snapped during Sandy. This is the most caring, kind, thoughtful person you can imagine. I may have served myself up as the reason, by thinking he was having an affair. He just moved out last week after telling me he doesn't love me in a passionate way and never did. This is simply not true. This is his second marriage and my first. His first wife is bipolar and I suspect her illness has covered up his own roller coaster. Our friends are in shock. He's not talking to anyone. Even his brother -- who he used to talk to every day was blind sided. I just got a text from his daughter and my heart is breaking. She was very supportive. I've gotten a therapist, but whenever I think about what is being thrown away I can barely function.




