My D/BPH has been feeling better these last few months as i have told from my very long original post. I have been suffering from the fallout from it long before he decided to announce he was going off his meds almost 4 years ago. I understand that I am angry and resentful with him for the suffering he put us thru (me and our 4 kids). And as I have stated the endless criticism and blaming ME for having "a problem." Little does he understand his BP and D was and is the problem I have...I can own my anger but I will not be labeled with THE problem. My H's mom (my MIL) is also a long time D sufferer and my FIL has been called a saint for suffering fallout for years but with his faith and Christian values got thru it with her years ago. Now my MIL is asking my mom if I have a problem and wanting to prove how bitter I am towards my H. IMHO my marriage is none of their business!!! I have told them on other situations that she crossed a boundary but she says he intends no harm but has to be a meddling MIL! On occassion my FIL has also spoken his mind. I guess that intimidated me years ago now it adds fuel to the anger and resentment i already have with my H. Now I am torn between saying little to nothing and wanting to give them a piece of my mind. But that would add to their "bitterness concern." What would you do?
~Millie
~Millie




