Just thought I'd share that I've just had my second counselling session, and it was great. I finally feel like I have someone on my side who can help me work through all of my emotions, in an unbiased and non judgemental way (of me and him). No more talking to friends about this ... my counsellor is the way forward. I fought the need to see a counsellor for years over the course of my life, and now wonder why I did so. She reiterated a lot of what everyone has been saying to me here ... that I will get through this (with or without him), and that I will have learnt a lot and be more aware for it. I am starting to not just know this intellectually, but BELIEVE that there is a silver lining in this situation. I urge everyone who is not, to go to counselling ... it is the first breakthrough moment for me in months. I actually feel positive today.




